We are living in challenging times, where children, teenagers, and young people are constantly tempted by the enemy of our souls. This adversary acts in various ways, leading our children to experiment with and engage in the “pleasures” of sin through numerous influences. Our children and youth are immersed in a world of influencers who often undermine ethical and moral values.
However, as responsible adults, it is our duty to guide, educate, and protect this new generation. We must be examples of righteousness, love, and understanding, showing them the path of truth and kindness. It is essential to engage in open dialogue without judgment to understand their struggles and challenges, offering unconditional support and firm guidance. Together, we can strengthen family bonds and create a safe and welcoming environment where the light of hope and love prevails over the shadows of temptation.
The Challenge of Raising and Educating with Wisdom
Raising and educating a child today is undoubtedly a significant challenge. Through divine wisdom, we find valuable guidance to assist us in educating our children, teaching them that correction is an essential part of their lives. Let us reflect on the following verse:
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6, KJV)
A crucial aspect is educating our children from an early age, as the knowledge acquired in childhood will remain with them into adulthood. In this context, parents have the responsibility to dedicate themselves to teaching and disciplining their children in a way that pleases God.
The Importance of Teaching Spiritual Values
As parents, we must dedicate time to teaching our children the path to draw closer to God. Teaching spiritual values and encouraging this connection from an early age is fundamental to their development. Moreover, demonstrating love, compassion, and empathy through example strengthens these bonds. By sharing these teachings, we build a solid foundation of values that will accompany them throughout their lives. The power of example and spirituality cultivated within the family are essential.
In Hebrew, “to train” implies dedication. When we teach, we also learn. This act of sharing knowledge and experiences enriches not only the mind but also the soul. Therefore, in training, we cultivate a deep sense of connection and mutual growth. May we always teach with love and wisdom.
Teaching the Word of God
Promoting biblical teaching at home is essential to bring our children closer to God. Their unity and support in their relationship with God will protect them from the world’s evil influences. Teaching them to seek an intimate connection with God strengthens them against negative influences. It is not enough to take them to church or say that Jesus is good; we must guide them to a personal relationship with God.
From childhood, children should understand God’s love and experience meaningful spiritual moments. The story of Samuel illustrates this clearly:
And the Lord called Samuel: and he answered, Here am I. And he ran unto Eli, and said, Here am I; for thou calledst me. And he said, I called not; lie down again. And he went and lay down. And the Lord called yet again, Samuel. And Samuel arose and went to Eli, and said, Here am I; for thou didst call me. And he answered, I called not, my son; lie down again. Now Samuel did not yet know the Lord, neither was the word of the Lord yet revealed unto him. And the Lord called Samuel again the third time. And he arose and went to Eli, and said, Here am I; for thou didst call me. And Eli perceived that the Lord had called the child. Therefore Eli said unto Samuel, Go, lie down: and it shall be, if he call thee, that thou shalt say, Speak, Lord; for thy servant heareth. So Samuel went and lay down in his place. And the Lord came, and stood, and called as at other times, Samuel, Samuel. Then Samuel answered, Speak; for thy servant heareth. (1 Samuel 3:4-10, KJV)
Samuel only understood that God was speaking to him after being instructed by Eli. Our children will only draw closer to God when we teach them the way.
Correction with Love and Wisdom
Correction should occur whenever necessary, in a constructive and respectful manner, aiming for the child’s well-being. Clear and empathetic communication is essential to ensure correction is effective and contributes to growth. To err is human, and correcting is part of the process of growth.
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. (Proverbs 13:24, KJV)
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. (Proverbs 22:15, KJV)
When applied with wisdom, love, and balance, correction helps the child understand that inappropriate behaviors have consequences. Parents must be attentive to their children’s behavior, using positive correction methods that promote healthy growth. Punishments should be proportional to the mistake, always aiming for learning and strengthening the family bond.
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame. (Proverbs 29:15, KJV)
Discipline is essential to prevent children from following harmful paths. Correction, when done with love, patience, and understanding, teaches without humiliating. Children need to feel safe to express their emotions, and parents should be examples of conduct and respect.
The Promise of Correction
Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul. (Proverbs 29:17, KJV)
Correction brings peace to parents, as a well-guided child becomes an honorable person, bringing joy to the home. God also corrects us out of love:
For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. (Hebrews 12:6, KJV)
Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby. (Hebrews 12:11, KJV)
Although correction may be difficult, it produces fruits of righteousness and life. Consistency is crucial: if parents promise consequences, they must follow through, so the child learns to respect rules and develop responsibility.
Following God’s Commandments
Teaching children to follow God’s commandments is essential to protect them from sin:
My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide my commandments with thee. (Proverbs 2:1, KJV)
My son, keep thy father’s commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother: Bind them continually upon thine heart, and tie them about thy neck. When thou goest, it shall lead thee; when thou sleepest, it shall keep thee; and when thou awakest, it shall talk with thee. For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life. (Proverbs 6:20-23, KJV)
Discipline guides children toward life, helping them face challenges with consistency and determination. Teaching them to keep God’s word leads them to live wisely and justly.
Blessing Our Children
Children are blessings from the Lord:
Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. (Psalm 127:3, KJV)
Our words have power. Blessing our children and speaking blessings over their lives is essential for them to be graced by God. Why not reflect on how many times today you blessed your child with words of encouragement, a hug, or a special moment? These gestures strengthen the relationship and show unconditional love.
Conclusion: A Commitment to Spiritual Education
God expects parents to commit to raising their children, guiding them toward His path. Children are a divine gift, and it is the parents’ responsibility to care for them with dedication, teaching them to depend on the Lord and live His commandments. May we bless them constantly, guide them with love, and prepare them for the purpose God has for them.
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